Genesis 29

Genesis 29

Genesis 29

1 Then Jacob continued on his journey and came to the land of the eastern peoples. There he saw a well in the open country, with three flocks of sheep lying near it because the flocks were watered from that well. The stone over the mouth of the well was large. When all the flocks were gathered there, the shepherds would roll the stone away from the well’s mouth and water the sheep. Then they would return the stone to its place over the mouth of the well.

Jacob asked the shepherds, “My brothers, where are you from?”

“We’re from Harran,” they replied.

He said to them, “Do you know Laban, Nahor’s grandson?”

“Yes, we know him,” they answered.

Then Jacob asked them, “Is he well?”

“Yes, he is,” they said, “and here comes his daughter Rachel with the sheep.”

“Look,” he said, “the sun is still high; it is not time for the flocks to be gathered. Water the sheep and take them back to pasture.”

“We can’t,” they replied, “until all the flocks are gathered and the stone has been rolled away from the mouth of the well. Then we will water the sheep.”

While he was still talking with them, Rachel came with her father’s sheep, for she was a shepherd. 10 When Jacob saw Rachel daughter of his uncle Laban, and Laban’s sheep, he went over and rolled the stone away from the mouth of the well and watered his uncle’s sheep. 11 Then Jacob kissed Rachel and began to weep aloud. 12 He had told Rachel that he was a relative of her father and a son of Rebekah. So she ran and told her father.

13 As soon as Laban heard the news about Jacob, his sister’s son, he hurried to meet him. He embraced him and kissed him and brought him to his home, and there Jacob told him all these things. 14 Then Laban said to him, “You are my own flesh and blood.”

Jacob Marries Leah and Rachel

After Jacob had stayed with him for a whole month, 15 Laban said to him, “Just because you are a relative of mine, should you work for me for nothing? Tell me what your wages should be.”

16 Now Laban had two daughters; the name of the older was Leah, and the name of the younger was Rachel. 17 Leah had weak eyes, but Rachel had a lovely figure and was beautiful. 18 Jacob was in love with Rachel and said, “I’ll work for you seven years in return for your younger daughter Rachel.”

19 Laban said, “It’s better that I give her to you than to some other man. Stay here with me.” 20 So Jacob served seven years to get Rachel, but they seemed like only a few days to him because of his love for her.

21 Then Jacob said to Laban, “Give me my wife. My time is completed, and I want to make love to her.”

22 So Laban brought together all the people of the place and gave a feast. 23 But when evening came, he took his daughter Leah and brought her to Jacob, and Jacob made love to her. 24 And Laban gave his servant Zilpah to his daughter as her attendant.

25 When morning came, there was Leah! So Jacob said to Laban, “What is this you have done to me? I served you for Rachel, didn’t I? Why have you deceived me?”

26 Laban replied, “It is not our custom here to give the younger daughter in marriage before the older one. 27 Finish this daughter’s bridal week; then we will give you the younger one also, in return for another seven years of work.”

28 And Jacob did so. He finished the week with Leah, and then Laban gave him his daughter Rachel to be his wife. 29 Laban gave his servant Bilhah to his daughter Rachel as her attendant. 30 Jacob made love to Rachel also, and his love for Rachel was greater than his love for Leah. And he worked for Laban another seven years.

Jacob’s Children

31 When the Lord saw that Leah was not loved, he enabled her to conceive, but Rachel remained childless. 32 Leah became pregnant and gave birth to a son. She named him Reuben, for she said, “It is because the Lord has seen my misery. Surely my husband will love me now.”

33 She conceived again, and when she gave birth to a son she said, “Because the Lord heard that I am not loved, he gave me this one too.” So she named him Simeon.

34 Again she conceived, and when she gave birth to a son she said, “Now at last my husband will become attached to me, because I have borne him three sons.” So he was named Levi.

35 She conceived again, and when she gave birth to a son she said, “This time I will praise the Lord.” So she named him Judah. Then she stopped having children.

Genesis 29 (NIV)

Jacob arrives in Paddan Aram where he meets some shepherds who point out Rachel (Laban’s daughter) to him. He goes home with Laban and is employed by him to do some work. In exchange for his work, Jacob asks for Rachel’s hand in marriage and Laban agrees but when the time comes, he pulls a trick on Jacob and gives him Rachel’s sister Leah instead.

Lessons from Genesis 29

  • Making a good first impression: When you meet someone new, it is important to make a good first impression. Be polite and respectful, even if you are in a hurry. People treat you nicely when you treat them nicely.
  • Don’t take advantage of people: Jacob was Laban’s relative, yet Laban acknowledged that it would be unfair for Jacob to work for him for no pay and so he discussed with Jacob to figure out what would be a fair pay for his work. Don’t take advantage of people by making them work for you with no pay.
  • Deceitful people attract deceitful people: Jacob was deceitful in his dealings with Isaac and Esau (he tricked Isaac and took the blessing Isaac wanted to give Esau) and now, Laban did the same to him by giving him Leah instead of Rachel to be his wife.
  • God loves you, He always will. Regardless of how the world feels about you, God loves you. Jacob did not love Leah but God did.
  • You can’t force people to love you: Leah hoped that Jacob would love her because of the children she bore for him but that did not happen. True love should be unconditional – offered freely, without conditions, and with no limitations. Understanding this will save you from relationships that are toxic and riddled with red flags. You deserve to be loved just as you are. God loves you.

Reflection

  • In your day-to-day life do you approach people with kindness?
  • Do you love unconditionally?
  • Do you realize how much God loves you?

Further reading

  • Deuteronomy 24:14-15 [Do not take advantage of a hired worker who is poor and needy, whether that worker is a fellow Israelite or a foreigner residing in one of your towns. Pay them their wages each day before sunset, because they are poor and are counting on it. Otherwise they may cry to the Lord against you, and you will be guilty of sin.]
  • Galatians 6:7 [Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap. ]
  • John 3:16 [For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.]

Prayer

Lord, help me see people like you do and teach me how to love like you do. In every interaction I have with people, let the essence of your love be reflected. Give me the strength to walk away from toxic relationships. In Jesus’ name, amen.

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Genesis 29

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